I fell in love with this book while reading its opening pages. It ticks so many boxes for me: family history, family stories, personal challenges and insights, humour…I know it will be one of my ‘stand-out-reads’ of 2022. When Australian writer and mother Ella Ward was undergoing treatment for a rare cancer at the age of thirty-six, she began a series of letters to her young daughter, in case she would not be around as her daughter grew into adulthood In the process, she documented a lively and fascinating family history, encompassing her own stories but also those of her great-grandparents, grandparents, and parents: their lives, loves and adventures. Woven throughout are 188 ‘Lessons’ for her daughter. The final one sums up her purpose: ‘Lesson #188: Tell your stories. A family is only as strong as the stories that are told. And, I’m afraid to say, the stories can’t just be told – they need to be kept. 27 Letter to My Daughter, p4 When my mother, the keeper of our family history and stories, began losing those memories due to encroaching dementia, I promised that I would hold, remember – and tell – the stories for her. This is what Ella has done for her daughter and all who follow her. The Lessons serve as mother-to-daughter tips for a fulfilling life, and each one appears after family anecdotes that illustrate the points. Some of my favourites are:Lesson #1: If you have a family, you have a storyLesson #18: ‘The End’ does not mean ‘THE END’Lesson #30: If you’re young, forgive yourself. If you’re not, stop (This one appears in the chapter called ‘For when you’re a jerk.’Lesson #45: Try and do your stupid things with kind peopleLesson # 63: Your heartbreak will last exactly as long as it’s meant toLesson #71: Shock will tear you apart. You will come back together. Differently, but togetherLesson # 110: Menopause is a feminist issue. Followed by Lesson # 112: Bleed loudlyLesson #179: It’s okay to stay up past your bedtime when a book is to blame The family stories include Ella’s great-grandfather’s experiences in the trenches of WWI, her grandparent’s globe-trotting lives, her mother’s single parenthood, her own experiences of travel, first jobs, love, motherhood and trauma. So yes: sadness, distress, hard work, blood and tears. But also: joy, fun, mischief, music, scents and sights. And magic and dreams. 27 Letters to My Daughter is a magical book that will have a place on my bookshelf for many years to come. 27 Letters to My Daughter is published by HarperCollins Publishers in April 2022.My thanks to the publishers for a review copy.